Oral sex, especially blowjobs usually get a bad rap thanks to the media and porn industries.  The giver is always in a compromising position, and can often be depicted in a demeaning way.   In real life, blowjobs give the giver an opportunity to be generous and please their partner.  It can be an incredibly fun experience for the giver, and if you are having fun then your receiver probably is too.  Enthusiasm is the best quality in giving oral sex, as it is a real confidence boost to your partner.  Here are some tips for better oral sex: